Monday, March 14, 2011

Black Women, Stay Away From Self-Hating Black Men

This post is about telling my sisters to stay away from self-hating black men because when I go to YouTube, it seems like self-hating black men are exposing themselves. I ran across this YouTube account named TheLeroyRadioShow aka Corey Holcomb who have this BOYCOTTBLACKWOMEN campaign going on. He's telling all black men to leave black women alone. He said that black women are played out, and that black women are so 90s. He said that black women ought to be used as sex objects and not marriage. He said that non-black women are used for marriage only. He also said that black women shouldn't date outside the race because it looks awkward when a non-black man is with a black woman but it looks normal when a black man is with a non-black woman. WTF????? WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS DUDE???? It seems to me that he hates to see black women with non-black men. It seems like he wants to see black women suffer. I'm telling you, this guy and guys like him are sick.

This is showing me that black men like him will never change their self-hating way, so black women it's time for you to start venting out to different races of men who will appreciate your brown skin, naturally Afro-textured hair, and African features. Back in the day, black men used to cherish us and love us, but now, they hate us to the oblivion simply because we're black. To tell you the truth, it's heartbreaking when a black man no longer wants to be with women that share the same ethnic background as him. I'm sorry, but anytime a black man hates a black woman or doesn't want to be with black women at all, it shows me that he doesn't like himself. It shows that he doesn't like the skin that he's in. He doesn't like his mother, sister, grandmother, aunts, female cousins. He doesn't like himself at all because a black woman is the reflection of the black man. If he doesn't like the sight of a black woman, then he doesn't like the sight of himself. Everytime I say this, they are in denial, but even racist white people can see this.

You know what, black women, it's time for you to find yourself a non-black man because by the way black men are towards black women, it's not going to get any better. It's going to get worse. I mean, look at the music videos that's out today. I don't see black women ANYWHERE as love interests of black male singers in these videos. I don't see black women as love interests in movies with black men. I don't even see biracial black women or light skinned black women in music videos and movies anymore. We are being replaced by non-black women, and I think that's part of the reason why black men are rejecting us. THE MEDIA HAS A LOT TO DO WITH BLACK MEN LEAVING US!

One thing about non-black men. They love our Afrocentric beauty. They don't look at it as disgraceful like black men of today do. They love our natural hair and brown skin. Black women, I just want to tell you that you should go where you are the most accepted.

I just want to tell you that I'm not lifting up bad black men, and I'm not here to put them on a pedestal. I'm just venting out the frustration that I had with them. It doesn't mean that I'm putting them on a pedestal.

19 comments:

  1. that dude is just.....wow...good post

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  2. Because many black men harbor what I like to call racial misogyny there is no need for black women to be fawning over them.

    I'm way ahead of the Blog owner on this one. I have no interest in black men anyway.
    I find black men who hate black women to be creeps anyway and I wish black women would stop putting black men on a pedestal especially because many of them have nothing but contempt for black women.
    Most of the black women who are married are from my mother's generation. What was true during mama's prime doesn't necessarily ring true today.

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    1. Have ever realized this goes both ways. You ever realize men dislike these self-hating black women with the glued-in-hair they called weaves. Black women who turn their nose up to good black men such as myself who stay single because he cannot find a good or just a black woman because she assumes, they are all the same.
      I happened to be considered a very good looking very intelligent black man and very self sufficient black man but single, can't find a black women. Only one condition, NO WEAVES PLEASE. I will not tolerate a black woman wearing someone else's hair. Its pathetic and embarrassing. White woman look and laugh at black woman walking around trying buy failing miserable to look European. Now that's self-hating!
      I try to meet woman I will see a black woman looking, staring at me and when I try to smile back because I may like what I see. She then rolls her eyes like "what you looking at an flips her weave and plays with her hair that belongs to some woman in India in the nearest window with a reflection of herself. Then starts smacking her head claiming the glue itches looking like she has a mental problem. Talk about self-hating!
      Then this black woman? Decides she wants to have a baby (never mind a father for the child just a sperm donor).
      Next all she has to do is find a "cute" guy with pretty hair and all the physical features she wants, then gets pregnant by some guy and has a baby. Then she can gush with her girlfriends on how cute her baby is and dress them up in designer clothes and a over sized baby carriage and travel on the train during rush hour. Should I continue? Raises a baby baby daddy never was cut out to be a father and she knew this and didn't care.

      Baby becomes a young hood because he lacks the discipline that usually a father provides he ends up dead or in jail then says the reason why is because her baby daddy ain't shit! Nevermind the choices she made, its all HIS fault. Either that or she produces another weave wearing female like herself all intentionally without a husband and father.

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    2. I agree with most of your comments quiz, but i don't think this necessarily defines all black women. I myself have never had a weave, however I relax my hair, not out of self-hate but because its manageable and easier to deal with for me personally. I have witnessed the way that SOME black women carry themselves and its ashame to think that a black man such as yourself is using these women to define all black women.
      I know that I do not fit into any of the characteristics you suggested. I'm educated and very focused on a career,I would not turn down a respectful and ambitious black man, and I have no intention of being any guys baby mama or bringing a child into this world that is going to reaffirm this cycle that you suggested.
      I think that you should not let these few black women deter you from seeking out a black woman because there are still many quality black women out there.

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  3. Only thing more repugnant to me than these black men who harbor contempt for black women are the black women who cosign on this poison.
    Stupid women like Melosidad1!
    Her stupid video black women dropped the ball fills me with rage.
    Melosidad1 basically agreed with all the misogyny and racism directed towards black women while claiming to promote self-love.
    Women like her a worse than these self-hating black men in every conceivable way.

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  4. He needs to sit his lil wack ass down somewhere and had the nerve on his website to say he was trying to be the next MLK Negro Please!!!!
    There are a few knuckleheads like him and now they have white women walking around like "yeah black women ain't shit" they all need to sit they asses down someplace.

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  5. Sojournerlove, I'm not putting black men who hate black women on the pedestal. OMG!!!! I will NEVER do that. It's just that I'm tired of those that look like me bash me to the oblivion. I'm just tired of my gender and race being attacked by them. I'm nowhere near Melosidad1 or whatever that heifer's name is. Something is wrong with her. She must like to be abused because she's taking up for those who hate her well-being. She is always talking about self love, well obviously, she doesn't love herself if she supports those who have contempt for her simply for being black and female.

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  6. This nigga and ALL the niggas like them need to have their sorry black asses beat down at random by some of their cities finest.

    Niggas like this tend to forget they owe their VERY lives to the black pussy that carried them. To bad their mothers didn't have the foresight to get abortions. And to all the daft bitches co-signing this mess white, black and every shade in between those hoes need to be sterilized.

    How are you going to HATE on the black woman and take pleasure in fucking her offspring? The cognitive dissonance is SO fucking overwhelming. God FORBID these people with these lines of thinking REPRODUCE! And this Leroy nigga has a BLACK DAUGHTER .. a crime!

    Personally besides the general ignorance I could give a damn though. Black men like this crack me up. They are still the lowest on the FOOD chain when it comes to men..well black American ones are. So they try to instill paranoia and insecurity in black women to make them self-destruct. This shit is sick, but its nothing we haven't seen before ladies, am I right?

    I personally believe the same spirits/entities that were behind the original fall of the black woman, slavery and our degradation since then are behind shit like this. Which is WHY it is so important for black women to KNOW that just because a man shares your skin color does not DARE mean he has your best interest at heart.

    Which is why ALL of these BWE blogs are SOOOOO very important.

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  7. Nicole Little I know you are nothing like that heifer Melosidad1.
    I love your blog because you are empowering black women. Keep up the good work.

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  8. I also think Rihanna and people like her arent into black womens interest either with their PORN music....' boyboy can u get it up' and S&M. etc

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  9. A fool would fall for an article like this. What kind of blk person tells another blk person to date outside of their race because a few idiots are mistreating them? All blk women have to do is choose their blk men wisely and quite supporting and standing by those who don't care for them. What do you think will happen if blk people date outside their race? You can only make blk people with two blk individuals.

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  10. If you really loved being blk then you would promote our race to stay together. Yall better wise up.

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    1. I love being Black and it's the reason why I encourage my sisters to pursue love where they find it.The Black Community however can just fester and die.

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  11. Try treating the good black men right and it would be no problem. Stop cosigning the ignorant niggas and crash dummys you'll get somewhere ladies. Until then as an articulate,intelligent Black man who has constantly witnessed the ego driven, judgemental disloyal "sistas"---I urge GOOD Black men to date outside our race. Good day.

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  12. www.blackwomenwithotherbrothers.com

    BW we got the memo explore your options visit BLACK WOMEN WITH OTHER BROTHERS

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  13. Delinquences of ALL races are existent..there are trashy whites..trashy blacks..welfare whites..welfare blacks..hispanics..asians..etc..i dont ever undestand why blacks are seem to be always targeted in conversations of low classness...all the hoopla over other race chics and black men is getting old..ppl like what they like..there are white men and women that refuse to date their own kind as well..what gives anyone the right to feel that they should OWN a race? One thing though i can say i have observed is that when a white guy dates black its usually a very attractive petite type whereas the black men pick the hood rat trailer park type of white girl with tatts and stays at the walmart with welfare mullato babies..thats my two cents..but hey its 2013..everybody just do u..

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    1. God! you were so on point with that one! I've seen that three times already with my own eyes. It pissed me off because those trashy redneck whores had those beautiful black babies living in a world of garbage & confusion all because they wanted to get a taste of the black woman's lesser men. Well, look where that got them. They're single raising their black kids too! Funny when I heard one say she wanted to make "pretty mixed" babies & ended up with KUNTA & His Sister sliding out from between her legs! The Cajuns down there in Louisiana give them hell for it. They're social outcasts now due to their curiousity.

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  14. Having "pretty mixed" babies is so 80's! I fell out laughing when the white girls said that! Only women I used to hear saying stupid stuff like that were actually black women way back in the day. As soon as I realized that most white girls I was meeting were dumb trailer park trash like that, I started avoiding white women like the plague. They rent expensive dresses & bags so that people don't know that they are redneck trash. You find out that they are just decorated trailer trash or ghetto trash when they ask for a ride home.

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  15. Wow! The last two comments are correct! It's always the "lesser" black men who date trailer trash. I knew a "trailer trash" white girl from my university days who dated a "lesser" black man (as you put it). They are no longer together. And you are right, a lot of white men who date "colored" women always get the HOTTEST colored women (they want to marry the BEST of colored women). This reminds me of a racist Hispanic girl who despised her white boyfriend but stayed with him anyway because he is white - how do I know? She always would say: "I can't wait to see what my mixed babies look like". She would always say stupid things like that. I would just give her a confused look. She is acting just like black women of back in the day.

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